We guys don't care if you talk to other guys. We don't care if you're friends with other guys. But when you're sitting next to us, and some random guy walks into the room and you jump up and tackle him, without even introducing us, yeah, it pisses us off. It doesn't help if you sit there and talk to him for ten minutes without even acknowledging the fact that we're still there. We don't care if a guy calls or texts you, but at 2 in the morning we do get a little concerned. Nothing is that important at 2 a.m. that it can't wait till the morning. Also, when we tell you you're pretty/beautiful/ gorgeous/cute/ stunning, we freaking mean it. Don't tell us we're wrong. We'll stop trying to convince you. The sexiest thing about a girl is confidence. Yeah, you can quote me. Don't be mad when we hold the door open. Take advantage of the mood im in. Let us pay for you! dont 'feel bad' We enjoy doing it. It's expected. Smile and say 'thank you.' Kiss us when no one's watching. If you kiss us when you know somebody's looking, we'll be more impressed. You don't have to get dressed up for us. If we're going out with you in the first place, you don't have to feel the need to wear the shortest skirt you have or put on every kind of makeup you own. We like you for who you are and not what you are. Honestly, i think a girl looks more beautiful when she's just in her pj's. or my tshirt and boxers, not all dolled up. Don't take everything we say seriously. Sarcasm is a beautiful thing. See the beauty in it. Don't get angry easily. Stop using magazines/media as your bible. Don't talk about how hot Chris Brown, Brad Pitt, or Jesse McCartney is in front of us. It's boring, and we don't care. You have girlfriends for that. Whatever happened to the word 'handsome'/'beautiful' i'd be utterly stunned by a girl who greeted me with 'Hey handsome!' instead of 'Hey baby/ stud/ cutie/ sexy' or whatever else you can think of. On the other hand im not sayin i wouldn't like it ether ;) Girls, I cannot stress this enough: if you aren't being treated right by a guy, dont wait for him to change!!!!! Ditch his sorry butt, disgrace to the male population and find someone who will treat you with utter respect. Someone who will honor your morals. Someone who will make you smile when you're at your lowest. Someone who will care for you even when you make mistakes. Someone who will love you, no matter how bad you make them feel. Someone who will stop what they're doing just to look you in the eyes and say 'i love you' and actually mean it. Give the nice guys a chance. Guys repost this if you agree. Girls repost this if you think it's cute.. Every Guy who isn't a jerk will agree with this, so we hope that all the girls that read this will repost this. Life is too short to complain about everything that comes your way so stop and smell the roses in life because you might never have another time to take it, so take your time because they are all different in every way, so take chances in life, if it doesn't work out then fine, there are always more roses to smell.
the interaction with people is SOO important. the human race is becoming more and more awkward. were so attached to tv, facebook, cell phones, computers, tumblr, the list goes on and on. What do all these things have in common? you can do all these things… by yourself. you don’t need friends…
Yesterday I went downtown with my besties and as usual, being the observer and photographer downtown, I came across this young homeless guy.
He was sitting on his bag, with a sign beside him and he was playing the ukulele. At first we walked by and as we were walking by, I turned to look at him, and he was just sitting there smiling at everyone that was passing by. No one took the time to look at him, acknowledge him or even smile back. But I did. I felt the need to take a picture, I had to take a picture.
We walked around and did what we had to do but on the way back down Queen St. I just had to take a picture, I stood on the sidewalk to take it, and just as I was about to put my phone down he looked at me, smiled and asked if it had turned out okay. I felt bad standing there to the side while taking the picture, but he was totally cool with it. He allowed me to take another picture from a different angle. So, I did!
You know how normally some people just take pictures of homeless people and then leave? I felt bad just walking away after taking the pictures, so I went up to him and gave him some money. Honestly, I felt like I did the right thing, he looked up at me and he had such a big smile on his face as he thanked me, but really, it was the least I could do. I walked away feeling good about my self, I was happy, I felt like I did the right thing. It made me feel like a better person.
Something about seeing him yesterday really got to me. I don’t quite know what it was. Maybe it was because he was kind, or the smile that he had on his face and wouldn’t wipe off. It shows that even people on the streets who have nothing, have a reason to smile. And sometimes, making a little gesture, to show that you “care” can make their day. It shows you that they’re strong.. even in their hardships and struggles. Even though I don’t know him, he was kind, a kind young man, in the total of 2 minutes I was there, and honestly, I’m glad I helped him. There’s just so much I love about this picture I could just go on, but I’ll stop here. The end result = Happy, Accomplished, Satisfied :)